Dear Breakingfree,
WELCOME to you and your husband!! We are so happy you found the forum!! As you know from reading our posts, you are not alone, and hopefully will find comfort in that fact here.
Thank you for sharing your story. Our last event was also an assembly. I was livid almost the entire time. So I understand how hard it was to sit and listen for 3 days to all the BS.
My suggestion for you is to allow the CO to come over and be friendly, cordial, and appreciative for their visit. Say you have just been really run down, blah blah blah like you were saying..and tell them thank you. Let them pray with you and counsil you. Have your bible out and ready before they get their. This will all buy you more time. At least it did for my husband and I. Now of course I would never meet with them again..because I could care less if they dipose of us. But if I was trying tto not blow my cover..I would play it cool. Just listen and smile. It will be one of the hardest things you will do because if you are anything like me I was bitting my lip not to blast them with all my findings. And I would have blown them away as I am sure you can.
Anyhow..please let us know if we can help.
Sincerely,
Lady Liberty